What’s the best way to get over someone you love?
15.06.2025 00:19

Or are you just jealous and he/she hurt your ego by rejecting you?
Or because they’re happy without you.
~KSR
Because the one you cared for doesn’t care for you?
Because it hurts that they are not with you?
Because they aren’t what they showed themselves to be?
My ex moved on so fast. How can I overcome the pain?
If you're the type of all second cases, then, acceptance is still a must but,
You want to forget him/her completely. But ever thought why? And what do you mean by getting over?
Because you were just unlucky in love?
How come Jesus died on Friday and rose on Sunday? That's not 3 days and three nights.
If you do remember them occasionally and feel like crying, don't resist, cry, it'll gradually reduce on its own.
You're an obsessed/insecure/desperate simp/immature, depending on actions you did.
Or because it hurts because they are with someone else?
Although if you're just a stubborn egoistic obsessed insecure immature teenager, grow up. Understand that you just feel that you can shift the orbit of the universe if you get your dream girl, BUT YOU CAN'T.
Now, while it may not be just a ‘she’ it might also be a ‘he’. What’s more important to know, is that, you can’t exactly delete someone from your head. Infact forcing.
Because you are in sorrow without them?
Focus on other things, and people, stay busy, stay lively, work, make goals, have hobbies, have friends and relax.
Or because she doesn’t love you back?
If you relate to all the first cases you need to, above all, accept, that they are not gonna either stay with you, and nor are they ginna get away from your past.
I love getting tired of loving that someone though…
But do make sure you aren't only lost in their thoughts, cry but only when it’s been too much.
You need to start treating people like people, not achievements.
When was you wife swapping fantasy started?
Or because you had created a random perfect image of them and they just broke your delusion?
Or you just over-cared expecting the same in return but are now disappointed?
True love, if one sided, does hurt and we want to forget or get over people, just keep going on with life, keep living and you'll get over it.
Because only you LOVED?
It's as harmful and futile to try to force forget, as much as it is to try to force get someone.
Stop fawning at others and work more on yourself, understand that getting that one person isn't the only thing.
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